I’ve been thinking about a simple statement lately: When I know my “why,” my “what” becomes more impactful.

At first, I thought about it in terms of ministry and leadership. When people understand why something matters, what they’re being asked to do carries more meaning.

But the more I sat with it, the more personal it became.

Because I can get pretty focused on the what.

What needs to get done today.
What meeting is next.
What person needs a call.
What Bible study needs to be prepared.
What ministry opportunity is in front of me.
What responsibility needs my attention.

When the What Becomes Heavy    

And none of those things are bad. Most of them are really good things.

But eventually, the what can wear me out if I lose sight of the why.

If I’m serving simply because something needs to get done, I’ll eventually get tired. If I’m serving because I need people to appreciate what I’m doing, I’ll eventually get disappointed. And if I’m doing it because I feel responsible for the outcome, I’ll eventually start carrying weight Papa never asked me to carry.

Jesus Is the Why Beneath the Work    

Paul wrote in 2 Corinthians 5:14: “For the love of Christ controls us…” 

There’s my why.

Jesus loved me first.

Jesus found me.

Jesus saved me when I couldn’t save myself.

Jesus gave His life for me, and now I get to spend mine making Him known.

That changes the what.

The “why” behind what I do isn’t a ministry. It isn’t a Bible study. It isn’t serving veterans, first responders, or the men Papa puts in front of me. It isn’t an event, a conference, a position, or a title.

Those are all things I may be called to do.

But my why is Jesus.

Those other things are simply some of the places He’s given me to live that out.

Before Ministry, There is Abiding    

I need to remember that because I can become so busy doing things for Jesus that I lose sight of simply being with Jesus.

Maybe that’s when the “what” starts getting heavy.

Jesus said: “Abide in me, and I in you… for apart from me you can do nothing.”  John 15:4–5

Before there is fruit, there is abiding. Before there is ministry, there is Jesus. Before I ask, “Papa, what do You want me to do today?” maybe I need to remember why I’m doing any of it in the first place.

The What Changes. Jesus Doesn’t    

I love Jesus. I’ve been loved by Jesus.

And I want other people to know the Jesus who has changed my life.

That’s my why.

And when I remember my why, even the ordinary things Papa puts in front of me carry more meaning.

A conversation.

A phone call I almost didn’t make.

Sitting across the table from someone who needs to know they’re seen.

Preparing a Bible study.

Praying with someone.

Serving when nobody notices.

The what may look different from one day or season to another. Some things Papa asks me to do today may not be what He asks me to do tomorrow.

The “what” will change. Jesus doesn’t.

So maybe that’s the question I need to carry with me today: Have I become so busy with my “what” that I’ve lost sight of my “why”?

Papa, don’t let me get so caught up in my “what” that I forget my “why.” Keep me close to Jesus. Let what I do flow from loving You, not obligation, recognition, or pressure. And whatever You put in front of me today, help me do it in a way that points somebody back to Jesus. Amen.

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